How to Be the Best M.O.H Ever

Being your best friend’s MOH- some may dread it, some may have been dreaming about it since birth.

No matter how ready you think you are, we wanted to give you these sure fire tips to make you prepared in every single way and the best Maid of Honor ever. Just a forewarning- it includes being prepared mentally, financially, emotionally, and just all around ready for a long but meaningful ride. SO buckle up and let’s get started!

Mental Preparation

While we don’t mean to scare you, mentally preparing yourself to channel all the energy you can will be your number one rule. If you go into the role as mentally prepared as possible, the whole process will be so enjoyable. Don’t get too scared off by the list below, as these things can absolutely be fun, especially with our next tip in mind. Things that will include quite a bit of energy?

-Wedding dress fittings

-Bridesmaid dress fittings

-Bridal expos and fairs

-Vendor meetings

-Planning meetings

-Planning celebrations (Bridal Shower & Bachelorette Party)

Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

You know what they say- communication is key! This is so incredibly true when it comes to handling responsibilities like being a MOH. It is going to require a lot of planning and cross communicating with more than one person at a time. Being okay with speaking up and saying what needs to be said will only benefit you and ensure that the bride has a perfectly planned wedding day. It may seem messy in the moments, but stick to your guns and listen to what the bride’s true stressors, wants, and needs are. We promise that it will all be worth it in the end and the bride will be forever grateful to you. Things to be honest and communicate about?


-Planning possibilities and limits

-Décor ideas

-Guest list size and who to invite (or not invite)

Have Fun and Keep Perspective